Sunday, December 17, 2006

In between and stuff

I wanted to comment on this, but decided instead of a comment on a post, I might as well put it here.

"my question is this, once the admitting comes out and it's mutual,
is it POSSIBLE
to stay in between; "just friends"; less than together?"
-supersara-


Hell yes.


Because you see, there are so many factors that people don't think about. What if one party is already unavailable? Taken, hitched, etc. Not single lar. And no matter what anyone says, I thinkfeelsay that it is possible to like more than one person at the same time. Perhaps in slightly different ways and different quantities (meaning you like one more than the other). But you can't reject someone by eliminating them just because you like the other one better, because it doesn't eliminate the fact that you still like two people! Which is my point la. Plus, it's kinda not fair. Want to reject, come up with a better excuse.


Okay, then what if they're both available, single and ready to mingle?


Also possible.


Emotional baggage, trust issues, compatibility issues, take your pick. Maybe one likes the other just 'okay okay only lar' and the other is head over heels. Maybe one likes the other so much enough to let the other go because he/she knows they would NEVER work out. Maybe one's been burned, jilted, cheated on. Got la, like all those Bold and Beautiful dramas.


If there's a will, I think it's easier to come up with a million reasons as to why two people would not get together despite mutual feelings than to come up with one hundred reason as to why they will get together.


And it also raises some issues to ponder over when you're in the mood.


How would you distinguish friends from good friends from i-have-feelings-for-you-friend.
Yeah hor, where's the line and point between being single and er.not.
Why does Yuenny stalk blogs? (only interesting ones okay)
And why she always emo at night.


Fuck it la. Everything I've been working for all these months are flushing themselves down the drain. Yuen, you horrible undisciplined person. Learn to stick to your guns la! One way or another also always give up so fast.


"It Ends Tonight" - AAR
Your subtleties
They strangle me
I can't explain myself at all.
And all the wants
And all the needs
All I don't want to need at all.
The walls start breathing
My mind's unweaving
Maybe it's best you leave me alone.
A weight is lifted
On this evening
I give the final blow.
When darkness turns to light,
It ends tonight
It ends tonight.
A falling star
Least I fall alone.
I can't explain what you can't explain.
You're finding things that you didn't know
I look at you with such disdain
The walls start breathing
My mind's unweaving
Maybe it's best you leave me alone.
A weight is lifted
On this evening
I give the final blow.
When darkness turns to light
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Just a little insight won't make this right
It's too late to fight
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Now I'm on my own side
It's better than being on your side
It's my fault when you're blind
It's better that I see it through your eyes
All these thoughts locked inside
Now you're the first to know
When darkness turns to light
It ends tonight,It ends tonight.
Just a little insight won't make this right
It's too late to fight
It ends tonight,It ends
When darkness turns to light
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Just a little insight won't make this right
It's too late to fight
It ends tonight,
It ends tonight.
Tonight
Insight
When darkness turns to light,
It ends tonight.

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